Best Way to make this December 2011 Memorable for Ever

December 2011

Well  I’m not talking about worlds end in December 2012 like silly things but I’m talking about the most wonderful month of a year and that’s- our SWEET DECEMBER!

Just remember the month of January 2011. You were full of enthusiasm and confidence, you had new goals, and you were appending new ways to your life. You were sure about the new you…   

Aren’t you…?

Now, for just 2 minutes; sit calmly and just think about January 2011, like when you do meditation or something…

Actually we all make lots of plans regarding New Year and well, it’s good to do so because it signifies that you care about your future and want to improve yourself! But after 2-3 months our Goals start fading and in July we even don’t remember them!

     And here it comes the last month December… Don’t feel bad because every one suffers from this situation. Actually “motivation is like a tier of your car; car will move whether air is low or high but for smooth experience you have to maintain a good level of air; you have to refill the 

air if it is low!”

Likewise motivation is not forever; you have to motivate yourself again and again whenever your motivation stream is low… So you have to motivate yourself daily like you eat food to pursued desired Goals…

But again a year is a very long time and for some reasons if you lost track about your Goals; don’t feel bad or embarrassed! Because we are human and well, human is a social animal. So there are some times when situation are not in your control! And Self-improvement is a life long journey, every one falls in this travel but the key is “Rise if you fall and never ever stop”…

An innocent boy was playing in the park with his father and suddenly fell down. Boy asks from his father with tears in his eyes – “Daddy, Why do we fall?

Father gives him a hand and hugged him than he replied- “We fall to Rise again.” And we all know this was the wisest answer.

So this year if you lost track of your dreams than Don’t wait for the new year to start new things! Because it will happen again and again in each December and you will lose your target completely!

So this December promise yourself that this December will be the last of this kind!!!

Research shows every self-improvement technique can be mastered in only 21 days i.e. 3 weeks! And what do you have..? A complete month!!! I.e. 30 days.

So today, list down all the works which you were decided in January 2011! And.. try to complete them in this December.

Don’t let the old works ruin your new year… ! There are lots of new things, new goals waiting to accomplishment…

!.So first list out all the targets you made for 2011.

2. Manage your time because you have only 30 days to wash out all the sins J.

3. Review your work progress in weekends there will be 5 Saturdays in this month. So write down about your goals and review them in each Saturday night before sleep. And motivate yourself in each Saturday, so the next week you don’t run out of motivation!! Well, you can also review my blogs for this purpose, if you feel them motivating J or you can do whatever inspires you...

4. Some goals needs a long period of time move them to New year’s section But for most of self-improvement goals one month is enough, So spend some time to think about the new Goals you want to reach in 2012 because its December and you have to plan about January 2012 too J.

5. Accept your failures, don’t hide/ run away from them! For everything in our life only one person is responsible and that is our own self! So accept your failures and this December promise yourself to not to repeat them in 2012.

6. Prepare yourself for New Year, if you decided to change your living with the New Year than you must be habitual of that kind of living form this month! Remember mastery needs practice. So left your old you and vanish this bad unmotivated you in December and Step-up with the new you in January 2012.

7. Spend some valuable time with your family and make this December the loveliest December for your life! Because money can be earned again if lost! But relationship will not! So this December be with your parents, son and with your wife and make it memorable forever.

I wish you good luck for your new life! I have started working on my last 30 days of 2011 to make this year the most amazing year of my life! When are you going to start……………………………….???????

Top 10 tips for Goal Persuade

                                                                              

                   Most of us feel excited and motivated when we first set our goals, and that feeling can carry us along for several days, or even weeks. But then, what happens? We begin to lose momentum. We get scattered, we procrastinate, we lose the fire that once fueled our dreams.

                       And we stop working so hard for what we want, even if we still want it.!!!!
So here are Top 10 ways which will guide you on your hard times...

!. Set a clear goal( Be Specific)-
                              Every one should carefully decide his Goal because this small 4 letter world have potential to change your entire life! So you should be clear and very specific while setting up the goals like - If you want to lose some weight then your goal should be - I'll lose my x weight in x days because it will make me feel better about myself. ! rather then - 'I want to lose my weight!

Lets take another example - If your goal is about your income then it shouldn't be like- I want a good in come! but it should be like - I want an income of 10000$ per month because I will be a happier person. .

2.Always write down your goals!
                               Do you know why you have to write down your goals on a piece of paper right now? The more tangible your goals, the easier you are going to focus on them.
                                And if you can better focus on your goals, the more likely you are going to achieve them.
                                This is why every goal setting tips require you to write down what you want to accomplish in your life.
                                So write down your goals on a piece of paper and try to put it somewhere you can see often. You can put the paper on your table, paste it on your cupboard, or frame it and hang it on the wall.

3. Create A Vision Board
                              There are a few cases where people use this technique marvelously. What a vision board will do for you is just like the paper that you use to write down your goals. Just that a vision board is a better and more creative way of doing it.

                               You can cut down any pictures related to your goals or which you think can inspire you and paste them on a board. If your goal is to buy a Rolex gold watch, cut down the pictures from any magazine and paste it on the board.

Thus, whenever you see that board, you will remind yourself about your goals. As simple as this.

4. Review your goals regularly
                              Re-read your plan at least once each week. Keep a copy of your goals in your wallet, purse or briefcase. Consider them as important to have with you as your Driver’s License.

                              Set a plan of action. How do we get to where we want to be? By defining the action steps that will get us there. This part is actually really simple. Most of us are great at planning, but not so great at taking the actions! ;-) But I do want to point out one thing here.

5.Create milestones
                              If you just set one huge goal, it can be discouraging - especially when you don't achieve it after a short while. I find it's helpful to break a big goal into smaller goals, after which you concentrate on achieving the smaller goals in the short-run. Just like when you go on a long road-trip - You set pit-stops to rest/recuperate throughout the trip.

6.Create a plan
                               If you have a plan worked out for your goal, it becomes much easier to stick to it. All you have to do is to follow the actions you have planned for the day. The best time to work out your plan is when you set the goal, because that's when your motivation is the highest. Usually, I create my goal action plans right after I set my goal, after which I take action immediately - which helps create a positive momentum.

7.Track your results
                               It's important for me to track the results of what I do, because otherwise it feels like my actions are not making a difference. Hence, every time I work on a goal, I will identify 1-2 performance metrics, then track those metrics daily/weekly. They are my connection to the end goal, because they let me know whether I'm on track or off track, which in turn lets me know whether to tweak my actions or not.

8.Start a journal documenting your goal pursuit
                                Having a blog or private diary to document your goal pursuit can be a therapeutic experience. A lot of times, we abandon our goal pursuits because we get frustrated mid-way and we are not sure what to do about that. However, when we write out our thoughts, it helps us to get clarity on our issues and renews our interest in the goal. Many readers at my blog created their life journals in the blog forums and have found that to be tremendously helpful in keeping them focused on their goals.

9.Be clear on why you're pursuing the goals
                                  If you keep giving up on your goals halfway, perhaps you were never serious in them to begin with. For me, if I'm really serious about a goal, I'd never give up on it - I'd keep hammering away at it, regardless of the obstacles, until they give way and I'm enjoying the fruits of my labor.

10.Learn to say no

                                   Do you often put your goals aside for other people? It's okay to do that once or twice, but if you keep doing the whole time, something is seriously wrong. You can't forever put your life on hold for others! I used to have trouble saying no to others, until I realized I was just doing myself and my dreams a disfavor when I say yes to something that's not what I want. Learn how to say no and you may find a bigger pot of gold at the end of this rainbow.

       Now . . . that’s a list. Even if you just start practicing some of them you will see tremendous results in your goal setting program. You will get motivated and stay motivated all the way through life, while successfully achieving your wildest dreams!

       So Rise! and Be Awake untill you get what you wanted in Life. With these final words I Abhijeet wish you all the best on your Goal pursuade and thanks all of you to be such a great reader. You all are really amazing guys...