Best Way to make this December 2011 Memorable for Ever

December 2011

Well  I’m not talking about worlds end in December 2012 like silly things but I’m talking about the most wonderful month of a year and that’s- our SWEET DECEMBER!

Just remember the month of January 2011. You were full of enthusiasm and confidence, you had new goals, and you were appending new ways to your life. You were sure about the new you…   

Aren’t you…?

Now, for just 2 minutes; sit calmly and just think about January 2011, like when you do meditation or something…

Actually we all make lots of plans regarding New Year and well, it’s good to do so because it signifies that you care about your future and want to improve yourself! But after 2-3 months our Goals start fading and in July we even don’t remember them!

     And here it comes the last month December… Don’t feel bad because every one suffers from this situation. Actually “motivation is like a tier of your car; car will move whether air is low or high but for smooth experience you have to maintain a good level of air; you have to refill the 

air if it is low!”

Likewise motivation is not forever; you have to motivate yourself again and again whenever your motivation stream is low… So you have to motivate yourself daily like you eat food to pursued desired Goals…

But again a year is a very long time and for some reasons if you lost track about your Goals; don’t feel bad or embarrassed! Because we are human and well, human is a social animal. So there are some times when situation are not in your control! And Self-improvement is a life long journey, every one falls in this travel but the key is “Rise if you fall and never ever stop”…

An innocent boy was playing in the park with his father and suddenly fell down. Boy asks from his father with tears in his eyes – “Daddy, Why do we fall?

Father gives him a hand and hugged him than he replied- “We fall to Rise again.” And we all know this was the wisest answer.

So this year if you lost track of your dreams than Don’t wait for the new year to start new things! Because it will happen again and again in each December and you will lose your target completely!

So this December promise yourself that this December will be the last of this kind!!!

Research shows every self-improvement technique can be mastered in only 21 days i.e. 3 weeks! And what do you have..? A complete month!!! I.e. 30 days.

So today, list down all the works which you were decided in January 2011! And.. try to complete them in this December.

Don’t let the old works ruin your new year… ! There are lots of new things, new goals waiting to accomplishment…

!.So first list out all the targets you made for 2011.

2. Manage your time because you have only 30 days to wash out all the sins J.

3. Review your work progress in weekends there will be 5 Saturdays in this month. So write down about your goals and review them in each Saturday night before sleep. And motivate yourself in each Saturday, so the next week you don’t run out of motivation!! Well, you can also review my blogs for this purpose, if you feel them motivating J or you can do whatever inspires you...

4. Some goals needs a long period of time move them to New year’s section But for most of self-improvement goals one month is enough, So spend some time to think about the new Goals you want to reach in 2012 because its December and you have to plan about January 2012 too J.

5. Accept your failures, don’t hide/ run away from them! For everything in our life only one person is responsible and that is our own self! So accept your failures and this December promise yourself to not to repeat them in 2012.

6. Prepare yourself for New Year, if you decided to change your living with the New Year than you must be habitual of that kind of living form this month! Remember mastery needs practice. So left your old you and vanish this bad unmotivated you in December and Step-up with the new you in January 2012.

7. Spend some valuable time with your family and make this December the loveliest December for your life! Because money can be earned again if lost! But relationship will not! So this December be with your parents, son and with your wife and make it memorable forever.

I wish you good luck for your new life! I have started working on my last 30 days of 2011 to make this year the most amazing year of my life! When are you going to start……………………………….???????

How to Keep Going When Life is Getting You Down

How to Keep Going When Life is Getting You Down

         First thing I want to say that is you can still go another one mile when you can’t even stand erect! And I think you all observed it in flight and fight type situations…

Do you ever wonder? How do people carry on when everything seems to be going wrong?

Imagine that you feel your heart has been broken into two and the future seems so black…

It really does not matter how full of life and determined you may be, but if you’re anything like the rest of us than definitely there will be sometimes when you’ll find it hard to motivate yourself and push through the difficult battles.

When you see no hope for the future, and everything just looks like a deep dark hole, it is really hard to continue with life. But there is light at the end of every tunnel.

There may be some situations like, just as an example-

1.     You are kicked from a job where you were working from couple of year.

2.    If your marriage is not working.

3.    You are on a project for a long time and you are totally exhausted about when it will complete!

4.    You are failed in some thing; which you loved a lot.

5.    Situations when you are hard hit in head by you own life….

We all face these type of situations in our life at one time or another and nobody is going to tell you the right thing to do. But there is something that you definitely do not want to do.  That something is… nothing.

When it’s time to make a move and you stand there doing nothing, you pretty much gets run over. Instead of making things happen, doing nothing just lets them happen to you.  This sucks for so many reasons, but primarily because it is not living.

Reaching a crossroad in life is never comfortable, but it’s also not the end of the road. It’s a time of uncertainty and challenge, which forces us out to the very edge.  It is here that we show what we’re made of.  Are we all made up of sand...?

So stop fearing from water! Drive in the river of difficulties and pass it with the world’s strongest boat i.e. your inner self.

 No matter how many wounds you take to the heart, just keep persevering.

1.  Look at your wounds in a New Mindset

In reality, everything in life is neutral, it’s all about how we interpret things with our minds! So just sit on confortable position and look at you and reanalyze; don’t be panic about past hit but concentrate on the new beginning with the new ideas!

Look whenever you are failed, you know one another idea that will not work! So you are being better by doing and correcting mistakes! Remember No one is perfect even the great God!

But the key idea is not to repeat the same mistake thrice! Instead try a new one there are infinite to do…!

2. Prioritize your time and everything else!

Don’t waste your time crying over past because you can’t do a single thing to alter your past but you can always do something to change the future!

Ask yourself a small but efficient question, that’s- “What Now?”

And then do the things which are urgent to do then do the things which are important but not urgent… if you divide everything in these criteria and if you are continuous on this routine you will soon find that you are doing the impossible…!

3.Only control what you can control & Be flexible

Some things are there which we can’t control like if you have a plan to go to picnic on Sunday but there’s heavy raining… you will soon be disappointed and you will curse everything around you but just think- if your bad mood can stop the rain? Answer is no!

Likewise sometimes due to some situation s we can’t achieve what we wanted to but believe me there are still lots of opportunities and plan s are there to accomplish. So be flexible with a plan.

Remember the movie “the A-team” You must have 2 or 3 back up plans for whatever you decide!

4. Take breaks and reward yourself!

Don’t be a workaholic be a smart worker instead! Take breaks when you are exhausted and do something productive AND entertaining like talking to your family so that you have a balance in life + your battery will be fully charged!

Reward yourself whether it’s a small or big success; it will make your subconscious strong + it will give you some light when you are in dark!

5.Trackdown your self

Just imagine a company without feedback, customer support and reviewer panel!

I’ll bate you will not buy a single thing from that! So how can you imagine yourself without reviewing yourself?

So first I’ll subject please write a journal and track down your daily routine.

And review it in the weekends and think about the difficulties or failure and writ down the ways how you are going to overcome from them…

Write whenever you feel good about your work and whenever you succeed in something that will remind you about your true self and save you from bricking….

Finally, Life is a non-stop journey and each moment is the destination so immerse yourself in the present as often as possible.

Mother’s Sacrifice

This is a true story of Mother’s Sacrifice during the Japan Earthquake.

After the Earthquake had subsided, when the rescuers reached the ruins of a young woman’s house, they saw her dead body through the cracks. But her pose was somehow strange that she knelt on her knees like a person was worshiping; her body was leaning forward, and her two hands were supporting by an object. The collapsed house had crashed her back and her head.

With so many difficulties, the leader of the rescuer team put his hand through a narrow gap on the wall to reach the woman’s body. He was hoping that this woman could be still alive. However, the cold and stiff body told him that she had passed away for sure.

He and the rest of the team left this house and were going to search the next collapsed building. For some reasons, the team leader was driven by a compelling force to go back to the ruin house of the dead woman. Again, he knelt down and used his hand through the narrow cracks to search the little space under the dead body. Suddenly, he screamed with excitement,” A child! There is a child! “

The whole team worked together; carefully they removed the piles of ruined objects around the dead woman. There was a 3 month old little boy wrapped in a flowery blanket under his mother’s dead body. Obviously, the woman had made an ultimate sacrifice for saving her son. When her house was falling, she used her body to make a cover to protect her son. The little boy was still sleeping peacefully when the team leader picked him up.

The medical doctor came quickly to exam the little boy. After he opened the blanket, he saw a cell phone inside the blanket. There was a text message on the screen. It said,” If you can survive, you must remember that I love you.” This cell phone was passing around from one hand to another. Every body that read the message wept.

 ” If you can survive, you must remember that I love you.” Such is the mother’s love for her child!!

How to become a Genius?

              How to become a Genius!

1. Be Goal And Results Orientated

Goal orientation is the number one tool you have to achieve your goals in life. With goal orientation, you can move with clear focus and clarity on the things you want. You will be able to be fast, efficient, driven and highly productive with your time.

To begin your journey towards goal orientation, start by writing your ten most important goals down, on a piece of paper. Write the goals down with conviction and power. As you do this over time, you're mind will become totally wired to making goal achievement a reality for you. You will be so driven and so focused that it will be unbelievable.

2. Be A Super Positive Thinker

The more positive you are in your thinking, the greater and more intense will be your success and achievement in life. With achievement comes gratitude, bliss and miraculous levels of self esteem and confidence. To begin your journey to positive thinking, you must start by focusing on the positive aspects of the things around you. You must see the benefit in a situation instead of the problem. You need to see the opportunity, the possibility and the joy which exists, and be hell bent and geared towards it.

When this happens, you will be able to come up with much greater levels of self confidence and ambition which will allow you to think like a genius. To think like a genius requires an extreme level of confidence. When that confidence level begins to expand and grow in your thinking, you can achieve great goals.

The fundamental tool you have to achieve your goals is a mind which only thinks a certain way. This certain way must be fixed and driven towards success in order to achieve it. So, be positive and develop a winning positive attitude for success.

3. Raise Your Intelligence And IQ

Raising your IQ and intelligence is the quickest and easiest way for becoming a genius. For example, you could practise lots of our techniques like PT, IS, VAK or our other methods. Using these techniques, you can raise your IQ and give yourself the brainpower necessary for high levels of intelligence quotiet, which is the cornerstone of genius intellect levels.

With a high IQ, it easier to achieve the brainpower levels of Einstein, Tesla, Isaac Newton or any other intellectual heavy weight that history is full of. Don't be stuck with a low IQ. Blast your IQ to 180 and above with our step by step training guide! There are only 3 steps in our guide which can transform your life:

!.Practice

2.Repeat/Recovery

3.Refinement

As you practise , you will notice a huge increase in your intellectual ability. You will reach the intellectual level you want and achieve mind perfection!

4. Copy The Mindsets Of The Intellectual Greats

              There have been many genii who have existed throughout the ages, whether we think of the greats of ancient time (such as Aryabhatta,  and Socrates) or modern figures like Albert Einstein, Nikola Tesla or Thomas Edison. They were all brilliant in their respective fields and can teach you volumes about what it takes to become the best and reach the highest levels of achievement.

If you want to become like them, you will need to study their mindsets and strategies and what that can possibly do for you. Copying the best will make you become the best. Don't live a life of mediocrity by associating with those that aren't doing anything with their lives!

5. Learn As Much As You Can Every Day

         A secret to become a genius is to learn as much you can. The more you become an expert in what you want to achieve, the greater the chances of success. Your ability to succeed in whatever you want to achieve lies on acquiring knowledge and wisdom. You simply must become the smart person that is an expert in their field.

When you are an expert, you will come across as a genius all by itself. Start this process by reading and studying your field for at least one hour per day/ Making a solid effort to do this will make you one of the most skilled people in your field. As that skill increases over time, people will be in awe at the sophistication and development that you have obtained.

Things you can do here are to listen to audio programs, read books, attend seminars. Subscribe to blogs and RSS feeds of those that are up there and performing huge feats. Put yourself on the edge and at the highest level. Do this every single day and you will find your whole mindset changing for the better.

6. Believe In Yourself

              If you don't believe in yourself, then no one else is going to believe in you either. If you want to be a genius, you need to have a solid, deep found belief in your abilities and what you can achieve in life. You can't have haphazard thinking and expect miracles this way. Belief in yourself and your ability to obtain what you want can work wonders.

Every person who has ever achieved anything great in life has always believed. Belief is what gives you the strength to keep going where everyone else would have stopped. Belief is the magical power which keeps you standing up again when the going gets tough. Your beliefs will also have effects on your self-concept, the way you interpet the world and your relationship to it. Feeling supremely positive, optimistic and enthusiastic about genius will make it so for you.

Always say to yourself that you can. If you have a dream that you want to create and a life that you want to live, it can be yours when you access the power of belief. What happens inside your mind is responsible for your success more than anything else, so respect and utilise its immense power now, and reap the rewards for your whole life.

So in conclusion, the secret to become a genius is three things at its absolute basis.

First, you need to be goal orientated. That means writing your goals down first thing in the morning, every single day, without fail, so that your subconscious mind can be fully programmed for it.

Second, you need to be a super or hyper positive thinker. This hyper positivity draws positive people, experiences and situations into your life. You will also feel better on the inside and derive more satisfaction, enjoyment and bliss from everything you do.

Finally, you need to raise your intelligence. This means keeping your mind super sharp, in terms of clarity, focus and concentration. With that basis, you can achieve any memory, problem solving or logical skills you want.

They says for being a Genious in any field need 10,000 hours of work Einstein was not born Genious!

He dedicated his whole life for his work , So there is no shortcut for greatness!

A candle must have to burn itself to shine!

ONE BEDROOM FLAT...

(Every person 

those who are far away

from their parents

 for jobs

 should have to read 

this heart touching mail!!! ) 

 Written by an Indian Software Engineer...  

                               A Bitter Reality  






            As the dream of most parents I had acquired a degree in Software Engineering and joined a company based in USA, the land of braves and opportunity. When I arrived in the USA, it was as if a dream had come true.  

Here at last I was in the place where I want to be. I decided I would be staying in this country for about Five years in which time I would have earned enough money to settle down in India.
My father was a government employee and after his retirement, the only asset he could acquire was a decent one bedroom flat.
I wanted to do something more than him. I started feeling homesick and lonely as the time passed. I used to call home and speak to my parents every week using cheap international phone cards. Two years passed, two years of Burgers at McDonald's and pizzas and discos and 2 years watching the foreign exchange rate getting happy whenever the Rupee value went down.
Finally I decided to get married. Told my parents that I have only 10 days of holidays and everything must be done within these 10 days. I got my ticket booked in the cheapest flight. Was jubilant and was actually enjoying hopping for gifts for all my friends back home. If I miss anyone then there will be talks. After reaching home I spent home one week going through all the photographs of girls and as the time was getting shorter I was forced to select one candidate.
In-laws told me, to my surprise, that I would have to get married in 2-3 days, as I will not get anymore holidays. After the marriage, it was time to return to USA, after giving some money to my parents and telling the neighbors to look after them, we returned to USA.
My wife enjoyed this country for about two months and then she started feeling lonely. The frequency of calling India increased to twice in a week sometimes 3 times a week. Our savings started diminishing.
After two more years we started to have kids. Two lovely kids, a boy and a girl, were gifted to us by the almighty. Every time I spoke to my parents, they asked me to come to India so that they can see their grand-children.
Every year I decide to go to India¦ But part work part monetary conditions prevented it. Years went by and visiting India was a distant dream. Then suddenly one day I got a message that my parents were seriously sick. I tried but I couldn't get any holidays and thus could not go to India...

The next message I got was my parents had passed away and as there was no one to do the last rights the society members had done whatever they could. I was depressed. My parents had passed away without seeing their grand children.

After couple more years passed away, much to my children's dislike and my wife's joy we returned to India to settle down.
I started to look for a suitable property, but to my dismay my savings were short and the property prices had gone up during all these years. I had to return to the USA.
My wife refused to come back with me and my children refused to stay in India. My 2 children and I returned to US after promising my wife I would be back for good after two years.
Time passed by, my daughter decided to get married to an American and my son was happy living in USA... I decided that had enough and wound-up everything and returned to India... I had just enough money to buy a decent 02 bedroom flat in a well-developed locality.

Now I am 60 years old and the only time I go out of the flat is for the routine visit to the nearby temple. My faithful wife has also left me and gone to the holy abode.
Sometimes I wondered was it worth all this?
My father, even after staying in India,
Had a house to his name and I too have the same nothing more.
I lost my parents and children for just ONE EXTRA BEDROOM.
Looking out from the window I see a lot of children dancing.
This damned cable TV has spoiled our new generation and these children are losing their values and culture because of it.
I get occasional cards from my children asking I am alright.  Well at least they remember me.!
Now perhaps after I die it will be the neighbors again who will be performing my last rights, God Bless them.
But the question still remains 'was all this worth it?'

An Innocent Beautiful Heart

A Valentine Story

John Blanchard stood up from the bench, straightened his Army uniform, and studied the crowd of people making their way through Grand Central Station. He looked for the girl whose heart he knew, but whose face he didn't, the

girl with the rose.

His interest in her had begun thirteen months before in a Florida library. Taking a book off the shelf he found himself intrigued, not withthe words of the book, butwith the notes penciled in the margin. The soft handwriting reflected a thoughtful soul and insightful mind. In the front of the book, he discovered the previous owner's name, Miss Hollis Maynell. With timeand effort he located her address. She lived in New York City. He wroteher a letter introducing himself and inviting her to correspond.

The next day he was shipped overseas for service in World War II. During the next year and one monththe two grew to know each other through the mail. Each letter was a seed falling on a fertile heart. A romance was budding. Blanchard requested a photograph, but she refused. She felt that if he really cared, it wouldn't matter what she looked like.

When the day finally came for him to return from Europe, they scheduled their first meeting - 7:00 PM at the Grand Central Station in New York. "You'll recognize me," she wrote, "by the red rose I'll be wearing on my lapel." So at 7:00 he was in the station looking for a girl whose heart he loved, but whose face he'd never seen.

I'll let Mr. Blanchard tell you what happened:

A young woman was coming toward me, her figure long and slim.Her blonde hair lay back in curls from her delicate ears; her eyes were blue as flowers. Her lips and chin had a gentle firmness, and in her pale green suit she was like springtime come alive. I started toward her, entirely forgetting to notice that she was not wearing a rose. As I moved, a small, provocative smile curved her lips.” Going my way, sailor?" she murmured. Almost uncontrollably I made one step closer to her, and then I saw Hollis Maynell. She was standing almost directly behind the girl. A woman well past 40, she had graying hair tucked under a worn hat. She was more than plump, her thick-ankled feet thrust into low-heeled shoes. The girl in the green suit was walking quickly away. I felt as though I was split in two, so keen was my desire to follow her, and yet so deep was my longing for the woman whose spirit had truly companioned me and upheld my own. And there she stood. Her pale, plump face was gentle and sensible; her gray eyes had a warm and kindly twinkle. I did not hesitate. My fingers gripped the small worn blue leather copy of the book that was to identify me to her. This would not be love, but it would be something precious, something perhaps even better than love, a friendship for which I had been and must ever be, grateful. I squared my shoulders and saluted and held out the book to the woman, even though while I spoke I felt choked by the bitterness of my disappointment.

"I'm Lieutenant John Blanchard, and you must be Miss Maynell. I am so glad you could meet me; may I take you to dinner?"

The woman's face broadened into a tolerant smile. "I don't know what this is about, son," she answered,” but the young lady in the green suit who just went by, she begged me to wear this rose on my coat. And she said if you were to ask me out to dinner, I should go and tell you that she is waiting for you in the big restaurant across the street. She said it was some kind of test!"

It's not difficult to understand and admire Miss Maynell's wisdom. The true nature of a heart is seen in its response to the unattractive. "Tell me whom you love," Houssaye wrote, "And I will tell you who you are." 

Steve Jobs: Man who made it 'I M POSSIBLE' from 'IMPOSSIBLE'

A tribute to...

Steve Jobs
(A Survivor's Story)

“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma-which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”

When Steve Jobs was born February 24, 1955, in San Francisco, California , his unwed mother decided to put him for adoption because she wanted a girl. So in the middle of the night, his mother called a lawyer named Paul Jobs and said, “We have an unexpected baby boy; do you want him?”

His mother felt very strongly that he should be adopted by college graduates and when she found out that both his future parents had never graduated from colleges, she refused to sign the adoption papers. She only relented a few months later when his future parents promised that they would send Jobs to college.

He went to college but decided to drop out because it was too expensive. Recalling his time there he said,

I didn’t have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends’ rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5¢ deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple.

Jobs and Apple

At 20, he and a friend (Steve Wozniak) started a company in a garage on April 1, 1976. Later that year, the duo debuted the Apple I at the Homebrew Computer Club in Palo Alto, California. A local store offered to buy 50 machines and to finance the production, the duo had to sell their most expensive possesions. Jobs sold his Volkswagen van while Wozniak sold his Hewlett-Packard scientific calculator.

Jobs named their company – Apple in memory of a happy summer he had spent as an orchard worker in Oregon.

By 1982 however, his company sales sagged in the face of competition from IBM’s new PC. Jobs and Wozniak unveiled their new creation, Lisa to increase the company’s bottom line, only to be another expensive failure.

Not wanting to dwell on these successive failures, they worked on a new machine called the Macintosh. Jobs was reported to commandeered the project, ruthlessly pushing its computer engineers and flying a pirate flag above the building where the team worked.

By 1986 the Mac, which Jobs promised to be ‘insanely great’ was a huge success. After 10 years, starting from 2 kids working in a garage, Apple computer had grown into a $2 billion dollar company with over 4000 employees.

At 30 Jobs, however, was fired from the company he co-founded with Steve Wozniak. He left the company after losing a bitter battle over control with Apple’s CEO John Sculley (whom Jobs had recruited from Pepsi Cola).

After Apple 

Apparently both have different views of how the company should be handled and in one meeting Sculley had told security analysts in a meeting that Jobs would have no role in the operations of the company “now or in the future.” When Jobs heard of the message he said, “You’ve probably had somebody punch you in the stomach and it knocks the wind out you and you cannot breathe. The harder you try to breathe, the more you cannot breathe. And you know that the only thing you can do is just relax so you can start breathing again.”

Jobs sold over $20 million of his Apple stock, spent days bicycling along the beach, feeling sad and lost, toured Paris, and journeyed on to Italy.

Recalling this publicly heartbreaking episode Jobs said,

‘I didn’t see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.’

During the next five years he started two companies – NeXTStep and Pixar.

NeXTStep which produces NeXT, $9,995 cube-shaped workstation which aimed to create a workstation for research and higher, didn’t do as well as Jobs had dreamed for. It did poorly and Jobs pulled the plug in 1993.

Pixar, however was a success story. The company started the first computer-animated film, the Toy Story and when Pixar’s stock went public, Jobs became an instant billionaire.

Jobs, back with a vengence

Meanwhile, his old company, Apple was under immense pressure from rival Microsoft and in 1996 posted billions of dollars in losses.

In December 1996 Jobs convinced Apple to buy NeXT and make its software the foundation of the next-generation Mac OS. The technology he developed at NeXT became the catalyst of Apple’s comeback. Initially appointed as Apple’s adviser, Steve Jobs was named Apple’s interim CEO in 1997.

In 2004 he was diagnosed with cancer on his pancreas. Jobs was told that the cancer was incurable and he would only live for another three to six months. Later, a biopsy showed that he actually had a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. He had the surgery and survives.

Under his leadership, Apple returned to profitability and introduced innovations such as the iPod.

Steve Jobs advice-

Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don’t lose faith. I’m convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You’ve got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work.

And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don’t settle.

“I'm sorry, it's true. Having children really changes your view on these things. We're born, we live for a brief instant, and we die. It's been happening for a long time.”

*****Organize, review, re-organize again, and repeat.(Most Important)

                         One mistake many of us make is that we set our plans and call it good. But plans need to be revised every so often to keep them fresh and relevant.

Once you have your action plan set, perform a DAILY review of it to be sure you are still working toward your goals, and that your goals haven't changed since you first made your plans.

We should always remember that our lives are not still... they always shift and chang, as we. So make it a daily practice to review, re-organize (if necessary), and you will be sure you are always moving forward decisively. You can do this first thing in the morning before you start your day, or in the evening before you retire so you are clear about your plans for the following day.

 Act like it's already your reality. Finally, one of the most powerful things we can do is to act like we already have what we are trying to create. Using the example above, I would act like I weighed 20 pounds less, and I would act like I was already happy. Yes, this can be challenging to do, especially when your eyes are telling you an opposite "truth."

But remember that the creation process begins in the MIND. If your mind is constantly telling you that you're fat and unhappy, guess what happens? You will believe it. If, on the other hand, you keep telling yourself that you are fit and happy, you will begin to really feel that way, and you will begin to attract that result to yourself. It takes time though.

                 Remember that your circumstances today are a direct result of your past thoughts and beliefs, which direct your actions, which creates a certain result. If you start thinking and acting in a different way today, you will create different results tomorrow.

Top 10 tips for Goal Persuade

                                                                              

                   Most of us feel excited and motivated when we first set our goals, and that feeling can carry us along for several days, or even weeks. But then, what happens? We begin to lose momentum. We get scattered, we procrastinate, we lose the fire that once fueled our dreams.

                       And we stop working so hard for what we want, even if we still want it.!!!!
So here are Top 10 ways which will guide you on your hard times...

!. Set a clear goal( Be Specific)-
                              Every one should carefully decide his Goal because this small 4 letter world have potential to change your entire life! So you should be clear and very specific while setting up the goals like - If you want to lose some weight then your goal should be - I'll lose my x weight in x days because it will make me feel better about myself. ! rather then - 'I want to lose my weight!

Lets take another example - If your goal is about your income then it shouldn't be like- I want a good in come! but it should be like - I want an income of 10000$ per month because I will be a happier person. .

2.Always write down your goals!
                               Do you know why you have to write down your goals on a piece of paper right now? The more tangible your goals, the easier you are going to focus on them.
                                And if you can better focus on your goals, the more likely you are going to achieve them.
                                This is why every goal setting tips require you to write down what you want to accomplish in your life.
                                So write down your goals on a piece of paper and try to put it somewhere you can see often. You can put the paper on your table, paste it on your cupboard, or frame it and hang it on the wall.

3. Create A Vision Board
                              There are a few cases where people use this technique marvelously. What a vision board will do for you is just like the paper that you use to write down your goals. Just that a vision board is a better and more creative way of doing it.

                               You can cut down any pictures related to your goals or which you think can inspire you and paste them on a board. If your goal is to buy a Rolex gold watch, cut down the pictures from any magazine and paste it on the board.

Thus, whenever you see that board, you will remind yourself about your goals. As simple as this.

4. Review your goals regularly
                              Re-read your plan at least once each week. Keep a copy of your goals in your wallet, purse or briefcase. Consider them as important to have with you as your Driver’s License.

                              Set a plan of action. How do we get to where we want to be? By defining the action steps that will get us there. This part is actually really simple. Most of us are great at planning, but not so great at taking the actions! ;-) But I do want to point out one thing here.

5.Create milestones
                              If you just set one huge goal, it can be discouraging - especially when you don't achieve it after a short while. I find it's helpful to break a big goal into smaller goals, after which you concentrate on achieving the smaller goals in the short-run. Just like when you go on a long road-trip - You set pit-stops to rest/recuperate throughout the trip.

6.Create a plan
                               If you have a plan worked out for your goal, it becomes much easier to stick to it. All you have to do is to follow the actions you have planned for the day. The best time to work out your plan is when you set the goal, because that's when your motivation is the highest. Usually, I create my goal action plans right after I set my goal, after which I take action immediately - which helps create a positive momentum.

7.Track your results
                               It's important for me to track the results of what I do, because otherwise it feels like my actions are not making a difference. Hence, every time I work on a goal, I will identify 1-2 performance metrics, then track those metrics daily/weekly. They are my connection to the end goal, because they let me know whether I'm on track or off track, which in turn lets me know whether to tweak my actions or not.

8.Start a journal documenting your goal pursuit
                                Having a blog or private diary to document your goal pursuit can be a therapeutic experience. A lot of times, we abandon our goal pursuits because we get frustrated mid-way and we are not sure what to do about that. However, when we write out our thoughts, it helps us to get clarity on our issues and renews our interest in the goal. Many readers at my blog created their life journals in the blog forums and have found that to be tremendously helpful in keeping them focused on their goals.

9.Be clear on why you're pursuing the goals
                                  If you keep giving up on your goals halfway, perhaps you were never serious in them to begin with. For me, if I'm really serious about a goal, I'd never give up on it - I'd keep hammering away at it, regardless of the obstacles, until they give way and I'm enjoying the fruits of my labor.

10.Learn to say no

                                   Do you often put your goals aside for other people? It's okay to do that once or twice, but if you keep doing the whole time, something is seriously wrong. You can't forever put your life on hold for others! I used to have trouble saying no to others, until I realized I was just doing myself and my dreams a disfavor when I say yes to something that's not what I want. Learn how to say no and you may find a bigger pot of gold at the end of this rainbow.

       Now . . . that’s a list. Even if you just start practicing some of them you will see tremendous results in your goal setting program. You will get motivated and stay motivated all the way through life, while successfully achieving your wildest dreams!

       So Rise! and Be Awake untill you get what you wanted in Life. With these final words I Abhijeet wish you all the best on your Goal pursuade and thanks all of you to be such a great reader. You all are really amazing guys... 

Oh Really! You are spending time? Think again...

                       

                          We tend to think of time as a resource that we spend, just like we spend money.  To complete a one-hour task is to spend an hour on it.  How are youspending your day?  Where do you want to spend your next vacation?  How will you spend the rest of the year?  Time is money, a disposable resource.

This is a silly and inaccurate way to think about time, however.  Time is not a resource.  You cannot spend time.  Time spends itself.  You have no choice in the matter.  No matter what you do, the time is going to pass anyway.  It doesn’t matter if you do one thing or another for the next five years.  Those five years will pass no matter what you do.

                            In reality you are never in the past or future.  You exist only in the present moment.  Even when you remember the past or envision the future, you’re still thinking those thoughts in the present.  All you really have is right now.  And that’s all you ever will have.  You can’t control the passage of time, but you can control your present moment focus.  That’s all.  No past.  No future.  Just right now.


                            First, understand that you can only achieve anything in the present moment, and you can only enjoy those achievements in the present moment.  You can’t achieve anything or enjoy anything in the past or future because you’re never there.  That’s obvious, isn’t it?  But too often people act incongruently with this fact.

The Dark Knight

I was born as a knight
neither good nor bad…

Couple of years later
I chose to be good...

Days gone and I learned something...

I fought for the Gods way..

And the nights were going darker day by day...

Once again I have a way to choose...

And it’s the darkest night...

There’s a limit of every suffering...

And it’s my time to fly...

It’s my time to escape...

Let I break the laws...

When my soul be so dark...

Even the brightest light will not return...

I’ll shine black as of a black pearl because…

I’m not White Knight anymore...

I am the Dark Knight!

-Abhijeet Verma

Water is still shaking as it always looks. 

Just the frequency is altering...

Sometimes it looks like alive and sometimes death silent!

Its alone and continuous from the beginning .

Although it does not know where it would end its journey..

But still its moving on for its destiny unknowingly...